I'm not too sure how to respond to a person who acted with a particularly negative sentiment towards me acquiring a new technological device that I really particularly needed quite badly. Mind you, I did not flaunt this in front of their faces at all but rather hinted but did not say anything until they asked for further details, quite vehemently at that too. Well either way, I'm not too sure that such a profane word can be used so casually to reflect their dislike towards my newly acquired item or rather directed towards me. Yes, "holding a grudge" towards me for having a new item is alright but I'm not too sure it warrants them to call me a 'bitch' just because of this. I hate this person right now- wait let me rephrase that, this latest outburst just completely heighten my dislike towards this person. From today onwards I am just going to try to lessen the amount of communication between this person and me as well as meeting arrangements.
I'm not a very direct person I know but I hate confrontations and/or conflicts. Personally, I do not like it because it will just make relations between people that little bit harder to make and truthfully I don't particularly want to be bad-mouthed by others either. Unless of course I can afford to be completely ruthless, which I have never had to do before (thank goodness). But either way, I still do not like the sudden outburst using such a language to my (not per se) face for something that seems so trivial. I may have been thinking in such an old-fashioned way for my age and generation but I think it is also partly because I normally befriend people I 'thought' was within the same wavelength as me. Perhaps I need to review my friendship-o-meter better next time 'round.
Wednesday, June 30, 2010
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